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Ep#114 From Content Slump to Creative Flow: The Messy Truth About Momentum

• Kristen Werner & Mia Steel

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What if the block isn’t your creativity—but the space between spark and share?

In this solo riff, Kristen slices through the invisible resistance that’s been weighing down creators post-summer, post-holiday, post-everything. If your brain is full but your feed is silent, this one’s for you.

You’ll hear:

  • Why video confidence isn’t your problem (spoiler: it’s friction)
  • The underestimated power of micro-systems: ready-to-go mic arms, low-energy formats, and one-tap workflows
  • How to turn scattered notes into traction using screenshot folders, voice-to-text ideas, and no-pressure Stories
  • The word that secretly kills momentum (👀 “should”)—and what to swap it for
  • How real-time creation with your lived experience beats overthinking every time

Whether you’re a millennial founder, a multi-passionate queen, or someone who just wants to feel like herself online again, this episode hands you tools and permission to get back in the game.

We don’t need perfect. We need posted.
 Name the resistance, remove one step of friction, and ship it.

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Naming The Real Block

SPEAKER_01

Well, welcome to the I Am That content creator. And today is a cheeky little solo performance from myself, Kristen Werner, your founder and coach of the Multi Brilliant project. And today I am going to talk to you about what I have found has been hindering me, hanging over my hand, that I would love you to look into as you move into 2026. So this is something that at the end of December, moving into January, I've struggled creating content. I've struggled to feel creative. I've felt very heavy, very lost. Like really, the year of the snake shedding has definitely been happening as we move into the fire force year on the 17th of February, which is also our launch date. But I've learned in this podcast today, I have named what I think my biggest issue has been. And I'm glad that I've named it because help me move through it. But I'm inviting you today to name what may be stopping you from moving forward in your business, whether that's creating content, whether that's launching a business, whether that's monetizing your community, whatever it is, today we're gonna name what is holding you back. And I'm just gonna say spoiler alert because you'll get it by the end of the podcast. Mine has been resistance. The resistance from idea to execution, there's a big, big block in there. And I'm slowly saying to remove that. And by doing that, I'm doing things like this Chicky Love Solo podcast, and I'm telling you all about it in this podcast episode.

SPEAKER_00

Are you ready to master the art of creating content that converts? Hey, I'm Mia, a mum of two, who went from being a burnt-out ambo to six-figure content creator in less than a year. Oh no beginning a late ADHD diagnosis. And I'm Kristen, also Mum of Two, and a former corporate branding queen to an entrepreneur. My dyslexic brain sees marketing very differently, and that's my superpower. And together we're showing women like you how to master video marketing and create content that generates income. Whether you're just starting out or ready to scale, we are breaking down everything from landing brand deals to building your own empire. Welcome to I Am That Content Creator Podcast, where we turn scroll stopping content into serious income. No filters, no fluff, just real strategies from two neurodivergent mums who get it. So let's turn your phone into a video marketing machine. And let's go! Let's go.

Heavy Season And Community Check‑In

Shedding, Shoulds And Draft Purgatory

Idea To Execution Resistance

Momentum Over Perfection

Fast, Messy Action For Founders

Identify And Remove Your Resistance

SPEAKER_01

We're done. Okay, welcome to the podcast today. It is a solo podcast just for Kristen. I'm Kristen Werner, your Brandon Confidence coach and the co-founder of the Multi Brilliant project. And today on the I Am That Content Creator. I just, well, first of all, I want to get on here and have a bit of a riff because I've got a new road mic arm and it's pink and I'm obsessed. And so I've put it on my desk and I'm trying to just find a way to create a studio vibe that I can just hit record at any time. And you know, having the duo, me or myself, sometimes recording the podcast, it's the planning, it's the setting up. And if you've been around the bush a couple of times, I am a manifesting generator, and so I will hit idea very quickly, and if it's not executed, it kind of dies in the ass. And that really breaks my soul. And I have even to the point where my social media is starting to change because I just need the ideas out of my head. And what I wanted to talk to you today about on this podcast is the permission slip to say, you know what, it's actually okay if you create differently, if you share differently, if you are feeling this really heavy energy going on right now. We've been talking inside the community, and we only spoke yesterday. We did a um how to start a male club masterclass inside the multi-bridge club. And we were talking to everyone there. And when we first got on the call, we said, you know, how's everyone feeling? And surprisingly, a few of our top creators, and actually majority of them that are on the call, said, you know what? It's been really hard to create um over the summer period. It's been really hard, it's felt heavy, it's felt just hard to get on and show up and and be yourself and do the things. And I think for me, it certainly has. Like it kind of hit me end of December, you know, school holiday. So you've got your kids home for six weeks. And that in itself is enormous. The mental load, the physical loan, getting ready for Christmas, winding up a year at creating content, winding up a year building a business online. They're big things. And then, you know, we had a masterclass at the start of this year inside the club, also, where we spoke to Chantel, who is relatedly woo-woo, is her social panel. And she talks, she talked to us about shedding. The year of the snake, shedding those last years, what that feels like, why you might be feeling heavy, why, as creators, we need to respect that that the shedding process is part of this, why it's so important to kind of lean in and probably nothing else. I think understand that that shedding process is why you might be feeling that way. And I know, like I said, for me, it was just this heavy feeling of I couldn't create, I didn't know what to create, I didn't know how to say it. I felt like an imposter in my own business because it just felt like what I was sharing was a performance rather than what I love to do, which is coach and talk on podcasts freely and openly about what's going on and how to create. But instead, I was trying to tell trying to edit everything and capture everything and think, what's the best hook and how do I make that work? And why is that working? And you get on social media and you watch all these gurus telling you you should, you should, you should, you should. And should is a word that I really fucking hate. Um, and I'm really conscious not to use it anymore. And I've even been conscious when my husband says it to say, like, we just gotta lose the should because it's what keeps us stuck, it's what keeps us bound, it's what keeps us from creating what we actually want or doing what we want. It it brings the guilt, it brings a bucket load of guilt when we say should. And I noticed that I was doing that a lot. Like, I should do this hook, I should edit that. And then I create content. And I I went through at the end of December when I was feeling really heavy and I was like, Why can't I create anything? And I went through my drafts folder and I was like, oh, the fucking scrolling to my drafts folder, like not hundreds, but 10, 20, 30 drafts sitting in there. Great content. But I'd recorded them in that inspiration moment, moments like this, where I was like, oh, I just gotta get it out of my system. I'm in manifesting generator and let it fly, let it be free, see what happens with it. I created it, and then after I created it, it sat there. And then I'd look at it when I was, you know, watching TV or something like that. I'd I'd go to edit it, and then I'd start thinking about it. I'd go, oh, it's not really that good anymore. You just maybe maybe you should say it that way. Depending on really want to hear that. And I'd have those conversations that I know that you're having with yourself because I see them time and time again when we get on coaching calls. This is what happens is we get in our head and we start to overthink it and we overcomplicate it, and we tell ourselves that we're not good enough, and we tell ourselves that this content isn't good enough. And you know, I sat with that eye and looked at those drafts in my folder, and and as a coach, I would tell you, post those drafts, do that thing, rah-rah. And I just couldn't, I physically couldn't. It's like my body just repelled wanting to do any of it. And that really challenged me over the holidays, to be brutally honest. And even Mia and myself, we hardly spoke on Slack over December and January. Like, that's not a bad thing. Nothing's happened in the relationship, we're still fine. But it I think we both just needed to press pause. We both needed to step aside and and hold space for what we actually needed to do. And and shed, shed was a big this shedding thing, the year of the snake. Oh my god, I have been shedding. Let me tell you, like, we shared programs, we changed our platform, we shared information that was on our sales pages, that was on our landing pages, that was in our Google Drives. It just like we just delete. I went to my emails, delete, shed, I can get out of my way. I can't have this blocking me. And it was really good to do the masterclass session with Chantillo inside the membership, inside the club, because she spoke to us about the permission slip around this being very normal, very natural, and something that if it's happening, that's that's a really positive thing. And so when we spoke to our members only the other day about how they were feeling, that was coming up. It was nice to hear Cut Fleet here. And I wanted to share with you that that's a normal thing. It's a natural thing. If you're feeling like that right now in Wahbi February, oh my god, February in 2026, then it's okay. We're moving into the year of the fire horse on the 17th of February, which is also the day that we launch our uh we're doing a launch and we're opening the doors to evolution and we're showing you what is possible when you evolve and you move through this, and and we decide to do that because it is the year of the fire horse. This is where we are strapping in, buckling in and going. And I and I'm feeling lately that because the shedding that happened in December and even January, and this like I want to tell you this repulsion for creating anything. Like I had this like visceral, like, I don't want to do it. I've yucked to the point where um the other day I was in the shower. No, I was watching TV, and when I'm watching TV, I'm obviously scrolling the Netflix, my husband success me, he's on my um Facebook magnet place, luckily looking for a caravan. So I'm here for that. But he's scrolling that, I'm scrolling this, and I was thinking, oh, I'd love to talk about this, I'd love to create this. And I'm like, well, I'm not gonna do a video now, I'm not gonna edit what I've already got, I'm not gonna do the b-roll text over, but I'm just not gonna do it right now. I'm not feeling it. So I started to type into my notes app, and I'm just fucking just letting just my brain vomit happen in the notes app. And I was like, oh, that's really quite cool. And I was like, maybe I just screenshot this and this becomes my carousels. And so I started doing that because what I found is the resistance for me. I love video. Jesus Christ, I love it so much. I've been doing this now for nearly 12 years. My video catalogues are ridiculous. So that's not my fear. Video isn't my fear, the confidence around video isn't my fear. What my issue is and what my resistance is, is from it's kind of like my dyslexia, from idea to handwriting things out, that is where I lose the magic between my brain and my fingertips, is where the magic gets lost. And if I don't verbally get that out quickly, or verbally do it like even with in the notes that my husband actually went to bed. So I put the little Mac on and I just spoke it and it typed it out. And then I can go and I can clear it up and I can do all the editing and all that kind of stuff after, but I need it out of my head and out of my body, or it sits in its stews, or I lose it. And and sure, some of those ideas are never meant to enter the world. That's uh Big Magic. Elizabeth, Elizabeth Gilbert, so that's the whole book, Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert. It's all around, you know, you have ideas and you sometimes have to let them go, and that's that's the beautiful part of about being creative. So that was, you know, I think that's something that I also resonate with and think about. But my resistance is the thought process of having these ideas, and I got them out in a notes out, like sometimes in the shower, I'll have ideas and I just quickly put a quick little note notes out idea. And then I think, I'll record that later. And then I get to later and we're working on the business, and we're in the business, we're emailing, we're I chatting, we're doing whatever we need to do to build this business and and coaching calls and all that kind of stuff that that builds your day. And all of a sudden it's 2:30, it's school pickup, you get pick up. From that time on, I've now learnt that there's no point in me trying to come back to the business because I haven't A, got the setup, and also my kids are still at that age where we get home and we'll either go to school, we'll go to sport, or I'll swim in the pool, or I'll get them to get on their bikes, or we'll do something, I'll make dinner, and that's just our afternoon. So then by the time they finally get to bed, oh, so much later, it's getting later later. Um, that that inspiration is gone until I sit down and I'm at the TV, and it's usually when my husband's even gone to bed, and I'm like, my ideas are alone again. And then I'm like, well, I'm not gonna create the video now, am I? But what I did do is think, okay, I'm gonna do this NoteTap thing. So I've smashed out these um in my NoTack. I thought I'm supposed to screenshot and share it. And that's what I've been doing as a carousel. Now, do carousels give you as much, does the algorithm of carousels as much as the reels? No. Um is video king? Yes. All those things that we know, but I had to stop and think it's either you you don't let that idea to the world, or you do it like this, and the people that are made to see it will see it. And the connection piece that you create will happen. It's out of your body, and and that in itself, that in that exact moment, getting it out of your body and sharing it because you want to, because you can see that it's gonna benefit your community. You can see that sharing this is going to inspire somebody, help somebody, show them what's possible to work with you, whatever that looks like for you, that is creating momentum. And that momentum is important because if you're just waiting and thinking, you know, I'm just gonna wait until I can do the video, and then then I'll create the video. And if you're like me, it sits in the note, it sits in the notes app, it sits in the draft folder, and then it doesn't go anywhere. And then when you finally do get to post it, all of a sudden it actually goes nowhere. Like, you know, you get a few hundred views, might get some comments, you might get nothing. And then you start that cycle of, oh, I'm not good enough, maybe this wasn't good enough, people didn't want to hear that from me. And that is that self-sabotage loop that keeps going. Now, if you are a multidimensional founder, you are somebody that is trying to launch your community, go on, um, grow your profile, build your business, create those six-figure years, those five-figure months, six-figure years, and you're stuck in this loop of it's got to be better, the content's got to be better, I've got to go back to my content plan, and I've got to plan this out, I've got to do this perfectly, I've got to do this video, and it's gonna be this hook, and then it's not this hook, and then it's this hook, and then they hit the pain points. And all of a sudden, that process on its own is exhausting. That process on its own is what is going to stop you and stop the momentum. So where we have our calls inside evolution, which is our coaching container, our high-level coaching container, we are still having conversations with these elite women, these multidimensional founders around this resistance, this exact resistance. Hell, for fuck's sake, I'm having that same conversation with myself myself. Like I'm sharing this with you because I've been there. I'm sharing this with you because I'm in it. I'm sharing this with you because I have been doing this now for fuck nearly. I've been online for 10 plus years, I've been doing this for nearly 15 years. I've seen things change, but I've had to keep pushing and pushing and pushing. And at no point have I actually gone, I'm gonna stop. This isn't working. I've gone, oh, this isn't working for me. What can I do that serves me, that serves my creativity, that serves my passion, that allows me to generate the content that's gonna cause the connection. Because when you get the connection, that is when you get the conversion. Because if you're not creating connection, like you know, the amount of people and mainly women that I speak to, that we speak to in our community that drop into my DMs, that their biggest resistance is I don't know what to create, I don't know what to post. I bet you had a fucking idea this morning. I bet you did. You had an idea. And instead of acting on that and taking action on that idea, you thought about it, you thought about it, you contemplated, you did 50 other things, you thought, that's not good enough, maybe that won't work. Have I really hit the pain point? Does that a lot about business? Is that the right messaging? Maybe it's not. I probably shouldn't post that. Should it be a real? Should it be a b-roll? No, maybe it should be a carousel, carousels, or train. I'll do some canva. And once I've done canva, the other camp. Do you see how that idea that you had that I know it's a brilliant idea because I know you. I know there's a multidimensional founder. You were born to jump, you were born to bounce around, you were born to just grab things and go. But what is stopping you right now is that process that is big, that is heavy, that is bouncing around in your own head rather than just taking action, hosting the thing and seeing what happens. Because that action, like I said, creates momentum. When you get momentum, like if I'm right now, I'm sitting in my house, I'm looking down, we've got a vineyard, it's well, it's I'd love to say it's green, luscious and beautiful, it's not, it's dusty as fuck, it's hot. The grape's like, I'm clean, let's have some water and let's win. But I'm looking out over them and we've got a hill, right? So it goes down and it goes down into the flat, and then there's a creek at the bottom. Now imagine if I got a box, an acid box, and I just pushed it once. I didn't roll once. Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool. So I'll push it again. It pushed it, it's rolled again, but it's stuck there, right? It's stuck on the hill because it's a box, and I need to manually push it to get it moving. But now I've got my son's box sitting right there. I'm gonna pick that soccer ball up and I'm gonna put it at the top of the hill, and I'm not gonna throw it. I'm just gonna give it a nudge. And in less than 10 seconds, that ball is at the bottom of the hill heading towards the creek. It has momentum behind it. It has something, a little push, a little and it's gone. It isn't a big shove and a big heavy where when you're creating content, when you're creating, you know, the perfect strategy and the perfect content plan and the perfect reel with the perfect messaging and the perfect time and the perfect outfit and the perfect lighting and all the perfect fucking shit that everyone's telling you, or the gurus are telling you you should do. We go back to that word I saw, we should do it. When you're doing that, you are standing behind a square box on a hill and you are lifting it. And when you lift it, you and it goes one movement forward. Boom. Sure, still moving forward. I'm a big advocate for that, still moving forward. But imagine if we take that resistance away. Imagine if we just go, I've got an idea, I put it in my notes app, I'm getting it out there. Now, whether it's you take on what I've taken on and literally um notes out screenshot, send it off great, or maybe you do it in your stories. You think I've got an idea, I'm gonna put my stories. It's still enough momentum to push that ball down the hill. Because all of a sudden, you you do your stories. Let's go with the story um idea. You put it in your stories, and all of a sudden you do one story, and you know, oh, that felt good. So you do another story. Oh, that felt good. You do another one, oh that felt good, and then you go away and you do something else, and then you come back to Instagram and you look it up and somebody's talking about the story. Oh my god, I feel the same way. I love heart, an emoji, a something. Oh, people like it. They're resonating, they're responding. All of a sudden, you're gaining momentum, you're building up. And say you do the carousel, the notes up ideas, steal all if you want. I absolutely love it. Does everyone else? I don't really know yet. I'm testing because that's what I do. If I can test shit, and I test it for you so that you can try. But imagine you do it and um you you put it put it out there. Oh, look at it. My computer's got fireworks on me. Um, I do it and I put it out there, and nothing happens. Right? Nobody comments, nobody likes, nobody shares. It's just a carousel of my brain on the paper. Cool. But now that's not the block analogy because what that's done is it's got it out of my head and into the universe because it leaps there now. Somebody may see it at some time, or I can share it at some point, share it to my stories. Hey does that how I'm feeling today, or I can reread it because we all know we re-watch and reread our things. I'm a not stupid, I do it, I know you do too. Don't be embarrassed, it's time and time. It's called compensally. Um, but I reread it and I'm like, oh, oh, that's a fucking great idea. Now I could do a reel on it. Now I could do another thing on it. It's momentum because it's out there, it's not just living in your little deep, dark phone world, it's out there. So you'll be you're able to actually create that momentum because you put it out there, because it's potentially been seen by somebody, it's potentially going somewhere, or it's it's a living and breathing thing. And so then you get to nurture it. So that is the momentum idea, and that is where I've shifted the funk from certainly where and I'm not completely out of it. If I'm honest, I'm not completely out of it. And doing things like this right now are helping me because you know, Mia and I have such a great relationship. It blows my mind that we can be nearly three years into this business and have such a fucking great relationship. We've only met once. Highlight. But like doing this now, obviously, we have a podcast that we share and we respect each other so much in terms of having those conversations. But I was listening to a podcast before that Mia and I um both often share and bounce each other, you know, share it with each other and go, oh, listen to this, it's inspiring, it's cool. It's just a woman on her own who shares her insights and stories into business. And I must admit, I was listening to it, I was like, oh, it's really good, you know, I was pumped up and fine out. And I thought, I've got two options here. And this is the crossroad that you might be at, but I really want you to hear, please, is you might you had two options. Is for me, I could have thought, oh fuck, I'm maybe I'll message me around and we'll get on a podcast, we'll have a riff about it. And that's great. Like that's what we'd love to, you know, we jump on here, we riff about it. And that's what we love to do is get on, have conversations with each other because we have such different perspectives that I think you, as our community, you I think want to hear from both of us and and we bring different things to the party. So, you know, I I could have just waited and thought, oh, okay, I'll do that. Well, I I know that she's got the kids time today because they're both sick, and I know that what we do is we get on Riverside and we play around a bit, and then we think, oh, what's it gonna be about? I'll watch it, you know, and we'd have a good conversation, then we'd hit record, and you know, we get through it and it would be great. And you know, then we thought I'd edit it and uh pods just pod dog has just walked in. There's my ADHD. Um pod Dods just walked in. She said my dog, she turned 17 the other day. She just walked in with a cup of cloppy feet. I didn't know you hear bless her con socks. Anyway, she sidetracked me, but we would have that conversation, and what would turn into potentially this is going to be so far a 20, 25 minute episode that I can cut bang, bang, bang, I can have it out before lunch. Would turn into a conversation that then turns into a podcast, that then turns into a whole thing, that all of a sudden maybe it's now two hours, because we love to chat, we love to strategize, we love to do all the things and and we really enjoyed that process. But that would have stopped this potentially from happening. Where I thought to myself, here's my two options. Either let me know that I'm doing this, I just do it, and then we go from there. And she's gonna give zero fucks because I hope that she'll do some solo efforts too when it's inspired and it's in that moment. So you are allowed to change what your business looks like. You are allowed to do things, like you know you can just do things. I think Mia found that quote somewhere. I'll have to ask her where she found it from. But it's like you you can just do things, like you know you can just do things, and so this is where my my my vibes that my energy is coming from in 2026. My word of the year is joy. This shit brings me joy. Speaking to you right now brings me joy because I could have created um a couple of TikToks, a couple of Instagram, talking heads right now about this and and done this, but again, it's that resistance that I would have done it, thought about it, got to edit it, got to do this, I've got someone coming soon, the or the process, the point from from a idea to execution is getting longer. And I didn't want that. I needed this out of my body, I need this creativity out of my fucking body. And if you are like me, if you are a manifesting generator, you're a little spicy, you're a little chaotic, and you just need things moved out of your body, the energy moved around, then just do it. Like this is maybe a permission slip because now, like I've got somebody who is coming to my house in about 10 minutes, um, which I'm really excited about. That'll be a sign that I'm actually gonna see if I can get her on the podcast because she's a psychic, she's amazing. She came to my local edit workshop here, and I'm I'm just so pumped about it. So I'm gonna see if I can do a little podcast with them. But I she's coming here in 10 minutes. So I had a choice again at those two options. I had a choice 20 something minutes ago. Do I do that or do you work on the busy piece of my business? No, I wanted to get this out, so I've got this out of my body. Now Riverside's going to download it. I'm gonna quickly edit it. Riverside is amazing, so it's got all the AI edits that cut, cut, cut, cut, cut. It also gives me my little um Instagram cutty bits and does all the magic edits, so it's it's quick, it's not messy. I don't have to have a big long process. The resistance is taken away. What I'm learning about myself from shedding some shit, and I think I knew this anyway, but the resistance between idea to execution for me, if it is too big, I will fumble. Shit the bit. That cracks me up. My husband said it the other night. Although I've heard it many a time, every time I hear it, it makes me just giggle. Because anyway, it just does. But in terms of I'll fumble so much that I won't do it, and that'll upset me, and that will get me in a spiral of you didn't do it again, you feel the guilt, where now I've created 25 minutes where I've been able to speak to you, that I get to create now a podcast, then we can turn into reels, into TikToks, and it lives in our ecosystem. Well, I'm putting video on the community, put it on the YouTube. It's those action steps, and if nothing else, the point of this podcast is to let you know. I mean, you know, I'm all about fast, messy action, perfections, not in my dress dress phone, not in my um vocabulary, because I think the messy action is the momentum. And in 2026, um, I'm gonna start a series on TikTok, um, no, on Instagram or TikTok, uh around the shit I'm unlearning in 2026 as a millennial founder. And one of the things is around marketing and how fast we need to move. And you know, what's really special about older generations 40 plus, I fucking hate the moon old generations, but what's what's awesome about us is we have this incredible backlog of life, of experience that we've got. And then you look at Gen X, and they've got fast paced, they're quick, they're nimble, they're fluid, they're just fucking go for it. But what's really cool is we get to marry both of them, right? We get to bring them together because we have the backlog, the life lessons, the being through that, know what happens, can use that as our foundation, and then we can see their speed, how they're working, how social media works. So we can try and take that speed and marry those two. Where you know, your Gen X, they've got the speed, they've got the fluid, but they don't have the backlog of things, of stories, of life lessons that are so fucking powerful. So we're actually in the prime position as millennial founders to unlearn the overthinking, overcomplicating, woe is me, what will people think, all of that stuff that holds us back in our business as we move forward in this digital space, in this social media space, we get to unlearn that and take on their lessons where they are moving fast, execution, just going. And we get the best of both worlds because we get the stories with the momentum. And so if you are if you are listening to this and you are thinking, okay, I can I can sense that that maybe I can I need to move faster, then all I want you to do from this episode is a drop into the DMs be like, damn, I liked that because I've enjoyed myself thoroughly, absolutely fucking thoroughly, and I want to do more of this, and and I will obviously with Mia's permission, but I know she's gonna be like, sweet, you do, you do. But this is the kind of stuff that let me know if this has been helpful. And I want to also hear the momentum, the action step you're going to take. Because if you have felt slow and heavy and it's too much, why? What's the resistance for you? Because, like I said, I named my resistance. My resistance is from idea to execution. So, how can I take that resistance out? What does that look like for me? Now, for me, that is being messier than usual, which that seems difficult because as a manning gen, I mean, I execute things at a very high level, but I won't fucking wait around. Like if I'm ready to go, I'm gonna go. And so I know I'm proud of that. It's got me into trouble in the past, but fuck it, you know, you're gonna do these things. So, that for me, that resistance is what I really struggle with, and that's what I've noticed moving, especially I think in 2025 and in December, the end of that, moving into January. That's what I've I've been able to come to, is that that resistance has been my biggest, you know, even little things um in in terms of resistance is right now with my new, my beautiful, I've called a Rizzo, my pink road mic stand. Even that has been a game changer, and I hate to say catch it, but I've wanted one for so long. And I've just resisted it because I didn't really need it, it costs too much. Isn't really meant for me. I get all the excuses, they just piled up. I was like, hey, excuse, what up? Which one should I choose to make? And then mum and dad gave me money for Christmas, and they said, no matter what you do, you spend it on you. You know, don't spend it on the kids, don't spend it on shopping, spend it on you. And I was like, okay, all I get. And then um one of our incredible members, Belle, I'll name you because you're amazing, she dropped Rhodes Um pink or colourful mic stands and mics and stuff like that. And so then I did a deep dive and I found the pink one and I found it for sale somewhere, and I was like, oh, I don't know, you don't need this. Like, oh shit, I could buy the bill. I did the excuses that piled up. I went and picked another one and went, oh, you do. And then all of a sudden I was like, the Money Mama Dad Gabby for Christmas. It's a Christmas present for me. It's all for me, it's just for me, it's what I've wanted. So I I bought it, and as soon as it landed here, I've only just unpacked it out of the box two days ago. I'm obsessed with it. It's made things easier, it's more fun now. I like I'm enjoying it. So the little things, resistance has been my challenge. I've named it. So that is my invitation for you after this podcast. I hit 30 minutes. I can't even believe that. No, I can't believe I can talk this long, but I can't believe that it's been 30 minutes. I hope you've gained something out of that. That momentum means just fucking going for it. Get it out of your head, find your thing. But I think the key takeaway of for this whole podcast is going to be what is your resistance point? And let's eliminate that right now. That's that is the biggest thing that I hope I can share with you in this podcast. Because if you can do that, hopefully you'll gain that momentum that I am certainly feeling now. So that's my little solo, solo shift. And I've had a lot of fun. So let's on the podcast. If you enjoyed it, let me know your resistance and let's help you move through it. All right, I gotta go.